{"id":5331,"date":"2019-08-11T06:47:00","date_gmt":"2019-08-11T06:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nigerianfinder.com\/?p=5331"},"modified":"2019-08-13T06:48:03","modified_gmt":"2019-08-13T05:48:03","slug":"6-reasons-why-men-dont-listen-to-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nigerianfinder.com\/6-reasons-why-men-dont-listen-to-women\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Reasons Why Men Don’t Listen To Women"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you listen to ladies, you often hear them say things like “My husband never listens to me.” <\/em>Or a girlfriend agonize to her best mate, “My boyfriend never seems to pay any attention to what I tell him”.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Ladies, have you ever thought about what may be the actual cause?<\/p>\n

Some of the common reasons men don\u2019t listen to women are:<\/p>\n

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1. <\/strong>Women Talk Too Much<\/b>
\nOften women have so much to say that the pertinent facts get lost in the intricacies of the story. She never stops talking about that cute top she saw at a store, how her sister is expecting a baby, how she had a fight with another girl hating on her.<\/p>\n

The list wouldn’t just stop \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n

2. Women Nag<\/strong>
\nOne of the commonest complaints men have is that their partners often nag them. And since they\u2019re used to the general trend of it, they don\u2019t think there\u2019s anything different about what they\u2019re whining about.<\/p>\n

3. <\/strong>Men Don\u2019t Like To Be Controlled<\/b>
\nMen feel that if they listen to a woman in terms of following her instructions, it\u2019s a sign that they are putty in her hands and that she\u2019ll take undue advantage of the situation. Once he gives in to her demands, he\u2019ll be the equivalent of a puppet on a string.<\/p>\n

4. <\/strong>There Are More Pressing Matters<\/b>
\nIf a woman is incessantly babbling in the background and a man is doing something far more important \u2013 at least to him – like watching a thrilling football match \ud83d\ude09\u00a0 the last thing he wants to do is turn off the television and tune in to his partner.<\/p>\n

5. <\/strong>Some Men Just Have A Short Attention Span<\/b>
\nOften, men cannot keep their focus on what a woman is saying for too long. They rarely have the patience to give women their listening ear for more than a certain fixed duration, which is normally about ten minutes at the most.<\/p>\n

6. <\/strong>The Topic Is Of Little Interest To Them<\/b>
\nAnd then, of course, if she insists on raving about the designer watch her boss\u2019 wife was sporting or the chandelier earrings her friend’s rich boyfriend surprised her with, that\u2019s really not something a man is interested in hearing.<\/p>\n

So, if you want your man to listen to you, Keep it short. Don\u2019t meander on about every little insignificant thing, especially if you\u2019ve noticed that he has no use for such frivolous details. If you have to go into detail, make it interesting. Hold him rapt with a cute anecdote or a funny story that will grab his attention and hold him captive.<\/p>\n

Stop being predictable and nagging him about the same stuff. Don\u2019t even try talking to him when he\u2019s got the television on. Eliminate all distractions, or wait till he\u2019s done with his television or newspaper, until you start having your say.<\/p>\n

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